Just finished the most recent episode and I feel like one of the missing pieces here may be an idea proposed by Eugenia Cheng in her book x+y and the TEDx Talk on the same topic. The idea here is that the terms "Masculine" and "Feminine" are actually already way to overloaded with baggage and instead by re-categorizing values/behaviors as being either "Ingressive or "Congressive" we can shed the baggage of the gender binary inferred by the use of clearly gendered terms.

Yes!! I was also considering mentioning Eugenia Cheng. I think she lays it out really well in her talk. For those who don’t want to watch the whole thing, you can jump right here to get the meat of it